Jealousy is the emotion most evident in a toddler who finds a new BABY in the house when mommy’s and daddy’s time is shifted from the toddler to the BABY.
Here are some rules that may be helpful for you in preparing your toddler for the NEW “Intruder” lol
before the baby is born. He may associate these rules with the new baby so do them asap so he does not associate the changes with the new baby.
Here are your TO DO hints
When the NEW BABY comes home, please do not walk in the house with the NEW BABY in your arms. Mom, your first child will have missed you and will want a hug from you. Not easy when you are holding a baby. Also, make sure the BABY has a new toy for your first child.
I would also mention that the BABY is not allowed to play with your toddler’s toys. This may prevent your toddler from throwing a toy into the bassinet so the BABY can play with it.
Also, the word GENTLE will be a big one when the older child seems to be too rough on the baby. Try not to freak out.
Also, try not to play with the NEW BABY in front of your toddler. Play with your first child as much as you can- the BABY will never know!
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